Over the years, the way we celebrate festivals has evolved. From a simple affair of lining the doorsteps, corners, and balconies with diyas and rangolis, Diwali has transformed into an extravagant occasion with a series of parties, shopping expeditions, and indulgent meals spread out over an entire week of festivities. Perhaps one way to retain the old-world charm amidst these new-age celebrations is to hold on to the small acts that form the essence of the festival and keep us rooted in tradition.
The Diwali Deep-Cleanse
In the weeks leading up to Diwali, cleaning the home takes precedence over all other preparations. There is no need to overstretch budgets for fancy decorations or white-washes. Simply putting things in place, sweeping under the rugs, and making a small rangoli on the porch beckons the festive feeling. The effort pays off in the days to come, no matter how arduous the task may seem in the beginning.
Bringing People Together
Festivals foster a sense of belonging and togetherness. Preparing and exchanging homemade sweets and snacks, watching the ram-Leela with the entire neighbourhood, and visiting local fairs were all community activities that brought people together in the past. While it is not advisable to host large gatherings during a pandemic, it isn’t a bad idea to retain the value of social integration by sending across homemade treats or handmade gifts to an intimate circle of neighbours, friends, and family. It is the perfect way to express gratitude to our loved ones.
Giving Back to Society
While philanthropy during the festive season is not a customary social tradition, it has been a common practice across generations. Today, the idea of ensuring the welfare of the needy and contributing towards meaningful causes may have been replaced by excessive spending on transitional wants and desires. While acknowledging privilege, it is also important to uplift those who have a lack of access to the resources that we take for granted. This Diwali, be sure to set aside an amount for donations or give some time to volunteering with grassroots organizations. The best way to celebrate the festival of lights is to illuminate the lives of others.
While these practices are still common in several households, it is important to re-learn and include them in our annual calendar, so that they can be passed onto future generations. After all, what is a festival without the comfort and nostalgia of long-cherished customs and traditions?